Information & Ritual Uses
If you have been manifesting a steady flow of suitors that do not meet your ambitions or are 'cut from a different cloth', it indicates that you have been manifesting by omission. When you are not clear about what it is you desire, your emitted energies do not have a focal point; manifestation becomes scattered.
Affirm what it is you do want and align your energy based on your desires.
This type of love spell and sex magick is best used when you know the precise attributes of your ideal companion, but this ideal companion is nowhere to be found. The ritual opens your energetic pathways and attracts the type of person you most desire. You and your ideal partner will finally cross paths.
As you repeat this ritual for 2-3 Moon cycles, you will begin to see your life and your plans suddenly rearranging. You will notice changes in the types of people that enter your life. This broadly applies to everyone that you encounter. If your desire is for a kind person, then more kind people will begin to enter your life. If your desire is for a prosperous person, then more prosperous people will begin to enter your life. And soon enough, you will cross paths with the archetype of the person you have been dreaming of all along.
Note: If wanting to attract a specific person, see Come To Me Ritual instead.
Attract a New Relationship Ritual includes:
Your selection of one of the following:
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Orris Root Powder {recommended for women to attract a man}
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Master of the Woods Powder {recommended for men to attract a woman}
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Please note, these are simply traditional recommendations. Same-sex orientations, non-binary, and transgender individuals are advised to make the selection based on their own yin and yang energies. Those on the feminine side of the scale, regardless of gender or orientation, may choose Orris Root Powder. Those on the masculine side of the scale, regardless of gender or orientation, may choose Master of the Woods Powder.
All roots, herbs, and ritual blends are packaged in thick glass 2 oz jars. The color, jar style, and closure may vary.
Ritual Instructions
You Will Need:
Your selection of one of the following:
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Orris Root Powder {recommended for women to attract a man}
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Master of the Woods Powder {recommended for men to attract a woman}
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Please note, these are simply traditional recommendations. Same-sex orientations, non-binary, and transgender individuals are advised to make the selection based on their own yin and yang energies. Those on the feminine side of the scale, regardless of gender or orientation, may choose Orris Root Powder. Those on the masculine side of the scale, regardless of gender or orientation, may choose Master of the Woods Powder.
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Standard sheet of paper
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Pen
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Fireproof ritual surface
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A small heat-resistant dish, ideally a tea saucer or similar.
Best Time To Perform
This ritual can be performed between the Witch's New Moon and the Full Moon. For best results, plan to do this ritual for 2-3 consecutive months.
Note: This Ritual Set contains enough product for 3 months worth of rituals with plenty of herbs leftover. To continue the ritual beyond the 3 months, simply add another set of Witch's Dozen (13) Ritual Candles and a Lavender Smudge Bundle to your cart.
Step 1: Within 72 hours before the Full Moon, take some time listing your desired attributes of your ideal partner. The qualities of the lover you wish to attract. Write them down on your piece of paper. Try to find a balance between being too vague and too rigid. Perhaps the exact eye color does not matter to you, but their physique does.
You must write in present terms. Write as if this person is already in your life. Please keep in mind, how you feel about this person is just as important as how they feel about you. Reciprocity is crucial.
Important: Do not use any negatives or not’s: He does not have a drug problem, he is not unemployed, he is not a cheater, etc.
For example:
He is taller than me, and I find him very attractive.
He loves the way I look and is very sexually attracted to me.
He is kind to everyone, especially children and animals.
He earns a great living (or independently wealthy, etc.) and happily shares his prosperity with me.
We love planning our future and are very happy spending the rest of our lives together.
He wants children and wants to have children with me.
We share our love for _______.
He is easy to get along with and makes friends wherever he goes.
My friends and family love him, and he loves them.
He is loyal, reliable, and faithful. We trust each other and are committed to our relationship.
He makes me laugh, and he loves my sense of humor.
He takes good care of his body and his health.
His family is easy to be around. His family adores me.
Step 2: Once the list is complete, hold four ritual candles between the palms of your hands and read the list under your breath. Your words and your energy exhale this new reality into your life. Read the list as many times as it feels empowering, then continue.
Step 3: Once the candles have softened from the warmth of your hands, place the candles on the list. Dust the candles with about 1/2 teaspoon each of the Song of the Siren Ritual Blend and your chosen powder. You will need to do this quickly while the candles are still warm. Firmly press and roll the candles in the herbal mixture over the list. Pure beeswax absorbs and expands energy incredibly well. This step is crucial, as it energetically summons the desired partner and draws them into your life.
Step 4: Create a Candle Braid. Gather the four Ritual Candles in your hand, make sure they are lined up evenly. While holding both ends of the candles, gently begin to twist in opposite directions. The motion is similar to wringing out wet laundry. The bottoms (or legs) of the candles should then be untwisted for the last 1/2-1 inch of the candles. Spread each of the candle legs to 4 opposing sides, forming a self-contained base. Set the Candle Braid upright on the dish and place it on top of the list.
Step 5: Sit quietly and meditate on this exact person entering your life. See yourself smiling, laughing, kissing, vacationing, etc. Sexual energy, particularly orgasms, strongly fuel all love rituals. While visualizing your partner and looking at the flame of the candle, bring yourself to orgasm. Dab the candle with a small amount of your sexual fluid.
Step 6: Allow the candle to burn fully down. Once cool, place the remnants in a small bag (jewelry gift pouches are ideal for this) and carry the remnant bag with you. On the morning of the next Full Moon, bury the remnants as close to your front door as possible. If burying is not possible, place the remnants under the doormat, or place them at the base of a healthy houseplant in the front of your home.
What to Expect: Within the subsequent moon cycle, you will see changes in the types of people that come into your experience. This broadly applies to everyone that you encounter. If your desire is for a kind person, then more kind people will begin to enter your life. If your desire is for a prosperous person, then more prosperous people will begin to enter your life.
As you repeat this ritual for 2-3 Full Moons, you will begin to see your life and your plans suddenly rearranging. And soon enough, you will cross paths with the archetype of the person you have been dreaming of all along.
Old World Moon Phases
The Moon is of key importance for the Old World Witch. The Moon and its cycle (increase and decrease) impact the potency of rituals and their successes. The Moon amplifies rituals and works in harmony with the energies exerted by the Witch.
As Old World Witches, we utilize elemental forces for magick and mystical significance of the natural world and its fauna and flora: Esoteric knowledge. Lore of healing. Energetic resonance of herbs and roots. And, of course, the Moon.
The Old World Witch does not follow the exact terminology and specifications of modern astrologers and astronomers. We maintain the visual interpretation and energies of the Moon, as explained below.
To view this year's Witch's Moon Calendar, click here.
Dark Moon
When the Moon cannot be seen and is in the dark phase, it is referred to as the Dark Moon in Old World Witchcraft. Modern astronomers and astrologers call this darkness the New Moon because the cycle of the Moon is about to restart.
Old World Witches are not the only ones who follow this Dark Moon terminology. Several ancient cultures (such as Islam) define this period as the end of the month and the very first crescent of the Moon (Witch's New Moon) as the beginning of the month.
The Witch's Dark Moon is a night of stillness, contemplation, and banishment. The only types of rituals that should be done on the Dark Moon are banishment work or curses/hexes. The Dark Moon is also ideal for all kinds of divination and working with the departed.
The Moon is energetically at its lowest point and is more conducive to the mentioned rituals.
Witch's New Moon (first crescent)
The New Moon of the Old World Witch is called the Witch's New Moon. It is when the very first crescent or sliver of the Moon is visible. This is typically 2-3 nights after the Dark Moon.
With some variations, the Witch's New Moon rises in the daytime before noon and becomes visible in the day sky. It will be most visible at sunset and usually sets well before midnight. The Witch's New Moon is the same percentage all over the world - both in the Northern and Southern Hemisphere. However, the tips of the Witch's New Moon point depend on the time, date, and location on Earth.
The Witch's New Moon is the ideal time to begin rituals that draw a life experience, physical possession, or situation to you. This can be for love, money, health, or personal development.
Rituals are best performed for 3-12 consecutive days. This is what leads to powerful, lasting, and most importantly, measurable results. Starting rituals three nights after the Dark Moon will give you exactly 12 days of rituals leading up to the Full Moon.
The Witch's New Moon is also the ideal time to begin a new venture, get married, apply for a job, or embark on a journey.
The same energetic attributes apply throughout the Waxing Moon, all the way up to the Full Moon.
The Full Moon is not only the most magickally potent and powerful time of the month, but it is also the most physically stimulating. As the Moon affects the ocean tides, so too does it affect our bodies. If you pay close attention to your body, you may have noticed that you may feel extra swollen or puffy on the mornings leading up to the full Moon and a couple of days thereafter. These are the days of maxi dresses, undereye concealer, and perhaps an inclination to wear fewer rings on your fingers.
Rituals are best performed for 3-12 consecutive days. This is what leads to powerful, lasting, and most importantly, measurable results. If you have been performing rituals leading up to the Full Moon, consider the night of the Full Moon the climax of your ritual.
The Full Moon signifies the cultivation of goals, the peak of a cycle, and emotional fulfillment. The Full Moon is best used to draw something into your life, such as love, financial prosperity, or self-development.
If, however, you are choosing not to perform any magick on the night of the Full Moon, simply sitting under the moon rays and energetically absorbing the magnetism will reawaken and revitalize your spirit.
Whether you're having a difficult time leaving an unsuitable relationship or are trying to eliminate negative self-talk, the Waning Moon is perfectly capable and willing to help phase out what is no longer needed or wanted.
In addition to removing negative influences from your life, this is also an appropriate time to cast revenge spells (curses).
The Waning Moon reminds us of things yet to be done and that time is slipping away. Anxiety is usually heightened during this time; therefore, self-care is critical.
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