Do My Bidding Ritual: Influence a Person's Thoughts, Actions & Desires



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Information & Ritual Uses

Old World Witchcraft 'Do My Bidding' Ritual to change a person's behavior, actions, and desires. May be used on a boss/co-worker, lover, family member, or friend. 

Do My Bidding Ritual includes:

This ritual can be enhanced with complementary herbs/blends to suit your exact needs:

To influence a friend or family member, mix with Deer's Tongue Powder. Use 2 parts Do My Bidding Ritual Blend to 1 part Deer's Tongue. Follow the Do My Bidding Ritual here.

To influence someone for financial matters, mix with Master of the Woods Powder. Use 2 parts Do My Bidding Ritual to 1 part Master of the Woods PowderFollow the Do My Bidding Ritual here. 

Alternatively, see the Pay Me Now Ritual for Financial Matters

To influence a lover or spouse, mix with Song of the Siren Ritual Blend. Use 2 parts Do My Bidding Ritual Blend to 1 part of either suggested herb/blend.  Follow the Do My Bidding Ritual here.

For fidelity and/or commitment, see the Devotion Ritual instead. 


    All RootsHerbs, and Ritual Blends are packaged in thick glass 2 oz jars. The color, jar style, and closure may vary.

    In addition to this Ritual Kit, you will need:

    • Target's biological material (hair, sexual fluids, etc.) or an energy-rich physical item closely associated with the target. Such as the target's business card that they have handed you. 
    • Piece of tape to secure the biological material or other physical energetic links, as mentioned above. 
    • Photograph of the target, preferably printed on plain copy paper.
    • Pen
    • Lighter or matches 
    • Fireproof surface 


    Ritual Instructions

    The Do My Bidding Ritual should be performed for a minimum of 2 consecutive nights between the Witch's New Moon (when the very first crescent of the moon is visible) and the Full Moon.​​

    The timing of the Do My Bidding Ritual is crucial! The ritual should be performed when you are positive the target has already been asleep for a couple of hours. Unless your target is an insomniac, 3 AM is the ideal time to perform this spell. The target's conscious and subconscious defenses are down, allowing your spellwork to permeate deeply within their mind and energy field. ​

    Find a quiet space and time where you will not be disturbed. As with all rituals, your altar surface must be fireproof. A stone or thick metal tray works well. Set all materials within close reach in your ritual space.

    Take a deep breath and allow your body and your mind to relax.

    Breathe out stress, breathe in joy.

    Breathe out worry, breathe in comfort. 

    ​Breathe out tension, breathe in serenity. ​

    Step 1: On the back of the targets photo, write their full name and date of birth, along with an affirmative statement such as:

    "{name} you are happily moving to New Orleans with me and are actively finding a new job in our new town."

    This is now your mantra. Whenever "your mantra" is mentioned throughout this ritual, this is the phrase that you should use. 

    Step 2: Attach the biological material or energetic item to the back of the photo and turn the photo over to face you. 

    Step 3: Dust the photo with about 1/2 teaspoon of the Do My Bidding Ritual Blend, making sure you can still see the target's face, especially the eyes. 

    Step 4: While looking into the target's eyes, roll a single Old World Ritual Candle between the palms of your hands. Beeswax absorbs and expands energy, which is why we use pure beeswax candles for all rituals. Chant your mantra until the wax warms up and becomes a bit sticky. 

    Step 5: Lay the Ritual Candle directly on top of the herb-dusted photo. Gently roll the candle over the photo. The Ritual Candles are made entirely of beeswax and are naturally a bit sticky. Some of the Ritual Blend excesses will remain on the photo, which is perfectly fine. Continue chanting your mantra.

    Step 6: With power and authority, exclaim your mantra. Light the candle and drip about 3-4 drops of wax directly over the photo, creating a small pool of wax in the center. Stick the base of the candle directly into the pool of wax and hold it for about 5 seconds. The center quickly hardens, and the candle will stand upright without any assistance. 

    Note: It may take you a couple of times to get the hang of this, but once you do, it will become a permanent part of your ritual repertoire.

    Step 7: Position yourself so that you can look through the exterior of the flame, directly into the target's eyes. Your gaze should soften and become out of focus. Your own senses of sight and sound will drown out for just a few seconds. Consciously attempt to make a telepathic connection with the target's energy field. Often imagining and "seeing" your spellwork spreading into their energy field, similar to radiation or thick fog, works wonderfully. ​

    Step 8: Sit quietly in meditation for a few minutes. Feel the serenity and joy of knowing that the work is done and the energy is currently penetrating your target. More often than not, the candles will extinguish themselves in their own puddle of wax. Pay close attention and do not let the candles accidentally catch the photo on fire. Stay put the remainder of the burn. 

    Step 9: An average Old World Ritual Candle burns 20-45 minutes, all based on your environment (temperature, drafts, amount of herbs used, etc.). As the candle burns down, you will need to create another candle to take its place the following night. The new candle should be placed directly on top of the same photo and wax/herbs remnants from the previous night's ritual. You will need to repeat this ritual for a minimum of 2 consecutive mornings, including the herb application on every new Ritual Candles.

    Remnant Disposal: To maintain a strong energetic link, it is strongly advised that your ritual remnants come into physical contact with the target. 

    For best results, use one of the following disposal methods:

    • Finely shred or grind the remnants into a powder and place them on the target's property. 
    • Place the remnants where the target will surely step on them. Such as outside the driver's side door of their car. 
    • Scatter throughout hidden parts of the target's home or office.
    • Anonymously mail the target a greeting card with the remnants inside. Do not write your name or return address anywhere. You may use a fake name or leave the return address blank. 

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