Information & Ritual Uses
Self-defeating habits include fear of taking healthy risks, negative self-talk, inability to ask for help, obsessing about perfection, people-pleasing (at the cost of your own happiness), choosing to be in a toxic relationship, self-guilt, or feeling undeserving.
The goal now is to break harmful cycles by replacing those maladaptive behaviors and thoughts with spiritual tools of energy balancing.
Included in this Self-Sabotage Banishing Ritual Kit:
- Organic Verbena Powder - Banish Unwanted People & End Self-Sabotage
- Witch's Dozen - Set of 13 Pure Beeswax Old World Ritual Candles
- Premium Palo Santo - Bless & Purify
- Your Choice of ONE Manifestation Herb/Blend:
- If you are banishing negative self-talk, choose: Sacred Power Ritual Blend: Self-Empowerment & Blessing
- If you are banishing procrastination or fear of change, choose: Viking Ritual Blend: Inner Strength, Courage & Protection
- If you are a woman who is continually manifesting toxic, dysfunctional, or abusive relationships, choose: Organic Orris Root Powder: Female-Empowerment, Authority & Wealth
- If you are a man who is continually manifesting toxic, dysfunctional, or abusive relationships, choose: Viking Ritual Blend: Inner Strength, Courage & Protection
- If you have an unhealthy relationship with money, such as chronic overspending, choose: Master of the Woods Powder
- Printed step-by-step ritual instructions
Self-Sabotage Banishing Ritual Instructions
This is a two-part ritual. The instructions outlined below are split up into two parts. Both parts of this ritual MUST be performed within 48 hours of each other.
Best Time to Perform:
The beauty of this two-part ritual is that it can be performed during any moon phase and may be split up into consecutive two days or nights. Do not put too much emphasis on the moon phase, as you are banishing and manifesting an internal energy. You do not need the assistance of external lunar energies to achieve these goals.
In addition to this Ritual Kit, you will need the following:
- Pen or marker
- Two 3" paper circles
- Lighter/matches
- Small-medium heat-resistant bowl
- Fireproof and heat-resistant surface (recommended Slate Board on Amazon)
As with all rituals, your altar surface must be fireproof. Set all materials within close reach in your ritual space. You should be able to reach everything while remaining seated. Once the ritual has started, you should not leave the sacred space until you have finished the ritual for the day.
Part I Instructions
Step 1: Lay one paper circle on your altar, and starting from the exterior edge, begin writing in a spiral precisely what you would like to banish. Such as: "I now banish and permanently remove all feelings of not being good enough or undeserving of a healthy and loving committed relationship"
This will now become your banishing mantra.
Step 2: Sprinkle approximately 1/2 teaspoon of the Verbena Powder onto the center of the circle.
Step 3: Begin rolling a single Ritual Candle between the palms of your hands as you recite your mantra. Pure beeswax absorbs and expands energy, which is why use it for all rituals. When the beeswax begins to soften from the warmth of your hands, firmly roll the candle over the herb-dusted paper circle. The Verbena Powder should evenly cover the entire candle. Chant your mantra.
Step 4: Using your finger, dust off/clear a small area in the center of the paper circle so that a little bit of paper shows through. Note: This is a crucial step, as the paper itself will need to stick to the candle for the candle to remain upright.
Step 5: Take a deep breath, say the banishing mantra aloud (or under your breath), and light the Verbena-dusted candle.
Step 6: Hold the lit Ritual Candle at a 45-degree angle directly over the center of the circle. Create a small pool of wax in the center of the circle; 3-4 drops of wax will do. Stick the base of the candle directly into the pool of wax and firmly hold it for about 5 seconds, until the center hardens just a bit and, the candle is standing upright without any assistance.
Step 7: Stare through the flame of the candle. Your gaze should soften and become out of focus. Your own senses of sight and sound will drown out for just a few seconds. Recite your banishing mantra 9 times.
Step 8: Sit quietly in meditation, feeling the energy and resonance of that which you wish to banish quickly leave your body and energy field. In your mind's eye, see these negative influences and the undesirable energies leaving you. You will begin to feel chills running down your body.
Step 9: Allow the candle to burn down fully:
- If the flame catches the paper on fire, allow it to (safely) burn all the way down. This is a good sign of the energies leaving your body, mind, and energy field.
- If the candle extinguishes itself its own puddle of wax, pick up the statement paper, hold it over the fireproof bowl, recite the banishing mantra 9 more times and light the paper on fire. Allow it to burn down entirely in the fireproof container.
Step 10: Before proceeding to Part II of this ritual, you will need to dispose of these current ritual remnants. The recommended disposal method is throwing the ashes into a busy intersection, which quickly drives the energies in all different directions away from you.
As soon as you have disposed of Part I, you may continue on to Part II. Part II must be performed within 48 hours of Part I.
Part II Instructions
Step 1: Lay one paper circle on your altar, and starting from the exterior edge, begin writing in a spiral precisely what you would like to reaffirm and create. This should be the opposite of what you banished in Part I. Such as "I now speak of only love and authenticity. I am proud of who I am and I am confident in my abilities to ________. I love myself and I trust my inner voice."
This will now become your manifestation mantra.
Step 2: Sprinkle approximately 1/2 teaspoon of your chosen Manifestation Herb or Blend onto the center of the circle.
Step 3: Begin rolling a single Ritual Candle between the palms of your hands as you recite your mantra. When the beeswax begins to soften from the warmth of your hands, firmly roll the candle over the herb-dusted paper circle. The herbs should evenly cover the entire candle. Chant your mantra.
Step 4: Using your finger, dust off/clear a small area in the center of the paper circle so that a little bit of paper shows through. Note: This is a crucial step, as the paper itself will need to stick to the candle for the candle to remain upright.
Step 5: Take a deep breath, say the manifestation mantra aloud (or under your breath), and light the manifestation-dusted Ritual Candle.
Step 6: Hold the lit Ritual Candle at a 45-degree angle directly over the center of the circle. Create a small pool of wax in the center of the circle; 3-4 drops of wax will do. Stick the base of the candle directly into the pool of wax and firmly hold it for about 5 seconds, until the center hardens just a bit and, the candle is standing upright without any assistance.
Step 7: Stare through the flame of the candle. Your gaze should soften and become out of focus. Your own senses of sight and sound will drown out for just a few seconds. Recite your manifestation mantra 9 times.
Step 8: Sit quietly in meditation, feeling the energy and resonance of that which you wish to manifest, achieve, and feel it enter your body and energy field. With your mind's eye, see this positive influence and energies surrounding you. As the candle burns, light your smudge bundle from the flame of the candle. Carefully move the smoldering smudge bundle slowly over your body, allowing the soft smoke to surround you. Pay special attention to your shoulders, back, and feet.
Step 9: Allow the candle to burn down fully:
- If the flame catches the paper on fire, simply blow it out. Don't allow the fire to consume the entire paper. A tiny center flame is perfectly fine to blow out.
- The Old World Ritual Candle will typically extinguish itself in its own pool of wax. Despite this, never leave the candle burning unattended.
Step 10: Place this paper circle under your bed (or mattress) for 28 days. After 28 days, you must dispose of this paper in a matter that best suits your purpose. Recommended: Bury the paper in your backyard, in the pot of a healthy houseplant, or at the base of a healthy, mature tree out in nature.
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