Archetypal Lover Ritual: Find Ideal Partner

Select Herb/Root: Orris Root {feminine}

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This love ritual is best used when you know the precise attributes of your ideal companion, but this ideal companion is nowhere to be found. The Archetypal Lover Ritual solidifies your desired qualities in a mate and opens the energetic pathway for you and your ideal partner to finally cross paths. 


If you have been manifesting a steady flow of suitors that do not meet your ambitions or are 'cut from a different cloth', it indicates that you have been manifesting by omission. When you are not clear about what it is you desire, your emitted energies do not have a focal point; manifestation becomes scattered. 

Affirm what it is you do want and align your energy based on your desires. Energy flows where attention goes. What you think about, you will become. What you become, you will attract. 

This Ritual Kit includes:

Your selection of one of the following:

    • Orris Root Powder {recommended for women to attract a man}

    • Master of the Woods Powder {recommended for men to attract a woman}

      • Please note, these are simply traditional recommendations. Same-sex orientations, non-binary, and transgender individuals are advised to make the selection based on their own yin and yang energies. Those on the feminine side of the scale, regardless of gender or orientation, may choose Orris Root Powder. Those on the masculine side of the scale, regardless of gender or orientation, may choose Master of the Woods Powder. 

  • Witch's Dozen - 13 Pure Beeswax Ritual Candles

  • Lavender Smudge Bundle

  • Printed Ritual Instructions

In addition to the Archetypal Love Ritual Kit, you will need:

  • Standard sheet of paper

  • Pen

  • Fireproof ritual surface

  • A small heat-resistant dish, ideally a tea saucer or similar.

Best Time To Perform

This ritual can be performed between the Witch's New Moon and the Full Moon. For best results, plan to do this ritual for 2-3 consecutive months. This Ritual Kit contains enough product for 3 months worth of rituals, with plenty of herbs leftover. To continue the ritual beyond the 3 months, simply add another set of Witch's Dozen to your cart and a Lavender Smudge Bundle.

Step 1: Within 72 hours before the Full Moon, take some time listing your desired attributes of your ideal partner. The qualities of the lover you wish to attract. Write them down on your piece of paper. Try to find a balance between being too vague and too rigid. Perhaps the exact eye color does not matter to you, but their physique does. 

Important: You must write in present terms. Write as if this person is already in your life. Please keep in mind, how you feel about this person is just as important as how they feel about you. Reciprocity is crucial. Do not use any negatives ("He does not have a drug problem, he is not unemployed, he is not a cheater, etc.")

For example: 

He is taller than me, and I find him very attractive. 

He loves the way I look and is very sexually attracted to me. 

He is kind to everyone, especially children and animals. 

He earns a great living (or independently wealthy, etc.) and happily shares his prosperity with me.

We love planning our future and are very happy spending the rest of our lives together.

He wants children and wants to have children with me.

We share our love for _______.

He is easy to get along with and makes friends wherever he goes. 

My friends and family love him, and he loves them.

He is loyal, reliable, and faithful. We trust each other and are committed to our relationship. 

He makes me laugh, and he loves my sense of humor. 

He takes good care of his body and his health.

His family is easy to be around. His family adores me. 

Step 2: Once the list is complete, hold four ritual candles between the palms of your hands and read the list under your breath. Your words and your energy exhale this new reality into your life. Read the list as many times as it feels empowering, then continue.

Step 3: Once the candles have softened from the warmth of your hands, place the candles on the list. Dust the candles with about 1/2 teaspoon each of the Song of the Siren Ritual Blend and your chosen powder. You will need to do this quickly while the candles are still warm. Firmly press and roll the candles in the herbal mixture over the list. Pure beeswax absorbs and expands energy incredibly well. This step is crucial, as it energetically summons the desired partner and draws them into your life.

Step 4: Create a Candle Braid. Gather the four Ritual Candles in your hand, make sure they are lined up evenly. While holding both ends of the candles, gently begin to twist in opposite directions. The motion is similar to wringing out wet laundry. The bottoms (or legs) of the candles should then be untwisted for the last 1/2-1 inch of the candles. Spread each of the candle legs to 4 opposing sides, forming a self-contained base. Set the Candle Braid upright on the dish and place it on top of the list. 

Step 5: Sit quietly and meditate on this exact person entering your life. See yourself smiling, laughing, kissing, vacationing, etc. 

Optional but strongly recommended: Sexual energy, particularly orgasms, strongly fuel all love rituals. While visualizing your partner and looking at the flame of the candle, bring yourself to orgasm. Dab the candle with a small amount of your sexual fluid.

Step 6: Allow the candle to burn fully down. Once cool, place the remnants in a small bag (jewelry gift pouches are ideal for this) and carry the remnant bag with you. On the morning of the next Full Moon, bury the remnants as close to your front door as possible. If burying is not possible, place the remnants under the doormat, or place them at the base of a healthy houseplant in the front of your home. 

What to Expect: Within the subsequent moon cycle, you will see changes in the types of people that come into your experience. This broadly applies to everyone that you encounter. If your desire is for a kind person, then more kind people will begin to enter your life. If your desire is for a prosperous person, then more prosperous people will begin to enter your life. 

As you repeat this ritual for 2-3 Full Moons, you will begin to see your life and your plans suddenly rearranging. And soon enough, you will cross paths with the archetype of the person you have been dreaming of all along. 

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