Contact Me at Once Ritual Kit: Receive Communication from a Lover

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Contact Me at Once Ritual for opening pathways of communication and obtaining attention from a specific person. This ritual will sweeten a lover's words towards you and can deepen relationships.

If you have recently been casually dating someone (new or otherwise), and they have not been contacting you as much as you would like, use this ritual to get their attention and maintain open communication.


This Ritual Kit Includes:

In addition to this Ritual Kit, you will need:

  • Photograph of the target where the eyes are clearly visible, along with the upper body. Use a printed photo on basic white copy paper – not glossy.
  • Pen/marker​
  • Fireproof surface, such as a stone or thick metal tray. 
  • Lighter ​/matches
  • The target's biological material, such as hair, nail clippings, dried sexual fluid, etc.
    • Although not absolutely mandatory, the biological material creates a strong energetic link and significantly expedites manifestation.
    • Piece of tape to secure biological material to photo


‘Contact Me at Once’ Ritual for Lovers

 When a new or longtime lover suddenly goes silent, use this communication ritual to swiftly open pathways for communication. In addition to drawing the target's attention to you, this will sweeten their words and draw them in. 


  • Those who have recently been in contact with the target, this ritual will only need to be performed once or twice to obtain results.


  • Those wishing to make contact with the estranged, up to 6 consecutive nights of ritual repetition is recommended. ​After the six nights, allow one full moon cycle (29 days) to see results. 


When to Perform:

  • This communication ritual is most effective when performing during the Waxing Moon, between the Witch's New Moon and the Full Moon. You may begin this ritual on the night of the Witch's New Moon.
  • For best results, perform when your target is likely asleep. Their conscious defenses will be down, allowing your ritual energies to permeate their subconscious quickly. ​​

​Find a quiet, darkened space and time where you will not be disturbed. As with all rituals, your altar surface must be fireproof. Due to the nature of this ritual, the bedroom is the ideal place to set up your ritual space. Set all materials within close reach. You should be able to reach everything while remaining seated. 
Take a deep breath and allow your body and your mind to relax. Hold the target's photograph between the palms of your hands. In your mind's eye, visualize the target in their current circumstances and surroundings.

Affirm to yourself the exact intention you are setting, such as:


"{target's name} you miss me and are reaching out to me NOW."

"{target's name} I am always on your mind, and you call me daily."

"{target's name} we have open communication, and you freely express your true feelings to me."


Step 1: Holding the target's photograph, write their full name and date of birth on the top and bottom of the photograph. As you do so, look into the target's eyes. Consciously try to form a telepathic link between their energy field and yours.​

Step 2: Begin chanting your mantra. As you do, write one of the below statements on the photograph over and over again, until you run out of room:






Step 3: Pick up one Old World Ritual Candle, slowly roll it between the palms of your hands. Beeswax absorbs energy exceptionally well. The more energy you put into the candle, the more power you will receive from this ritual. Imagine at this very moment receiving a loving call, text message, or email from your target. Really feel that the target has already reached out. If your goal is to have more heartfelt communication with your target, imagine the conversation exactly as you wish for it to happen. Feel the calmness and the joy, knowing your target is openly and lovingly communicating with you. Allow this energy to permeate through your body, down to your hands, and into the candle. Feel the peace of the moment. 
Sit in this energetic harmony for as long as you feel comfortable. You will have an inner knowing when it is time to proceed to the next step.
Step 4: Tape the biological material to the middle of the photograph while chanting your mantra.

Step 5: Place the candle on top of the target's photo, slowly rolling the candle back and forth across the image. This allows the beeswax to pick up the energies of the target. Beeswax absorbs and expands energies. 
Step 6: Dust the Old World Ritual Candle with 1/2 teaspoon of the included Mugwort Powder and 1/2 teaspoon of the Song of the Siren Ritual Blend. 
Create the mental and emotional energy of your target reaching out to you. Calling you. Texting you. Emailing you. Imagine your face etched on your target's brain. Consciously make a telepathic connection between their energy field and yours.
Step 7: Hold the Old World Ritual with one hand and light with the other, all while chanting your mantra. 
Step 8: Hold the candle at a 45-degree angle and start dripping the wax over your target's image. As you do so, continue chanting your ritual mantra. Drip a couple of drops right in the center of the photo, preferably where the body of the target is (heart area). Holding at the base of the candle, place it in the center of the pool of wax, and apply firm pressure to hold it upright. The Old World Ritual candles are made entirely out of pliable beeswax and will stay upright without a candleholder. 
Note: It may take you a few attempts to get the hang of this holder-less method, but once you do, it will forever be in your occult repertoire. 
Step 9: Stare into the flame for a couple of minutes as you continue chanting your ritual mantra. Sit in meditation. Feel the serenity and joy of knowing that the work is done and the energy is currently penetrating your target. 
Step 10: As the candle burns, light Old World Floral Smudge from the flame of the candle. Allow the smoke to envelop your entire body; paying special attention to the top of your head and at the base of your spine. Smudge your bedroom, especially the four corners of the bed, both nightstands, and all windows, doors, mirrors, and reflective surfaces in the bedroom. When finished, firmly press the lit side of the smudge into a fireproof surface to extinguish. 

The Old World Ritual Candles burn 20-45 minutes. The burn time depends on the temperature in the room, any possible drafts, and the amount of herbs used. 

If the candle extinguishes itself in its own pool of wax, take it as a sign that the ritual must be repeated, up to 6 consecutive nights. Repeat ritual the following night, re-using the same wax-dripped photo, starting at Step 6. 

If the flame of the candle catches the photo on fire and consumes it, take it as a sign that the energies successfully permeated. Nonetheless, if your target is estranged, repeat for up to 6 consecutive nights starting from Step 1. 
Step 11: If by the 6th night the photo is still not burned, you may burn it outdoors or in a sink, whichever is the safest and most convenient method for you.

Ritual Remnant Disposal: Holding the ashes from the ritual in your right hand, go outside and face the approximate direction of your target. State your mantra once more and blow the ashes. This will rapidly send the energy towards your target.  

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